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Durian Daily’s Guide To Red Packet/Ang Pao Etiquette


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Chinese New Year is upon us! For many, the practice of giving and receiving red packets has always been a subject of confusion. How much should I ask for? Am I allowed to open it right away? Is it OK to use red packets that are black in colour? Here are some of Durian Daily’s tips to correct ang pao etiquette:

  • Black-coloured ang paos are acceptable as long as you are giving it to an ex-lover, mother-in-law or a person you generally dislike

  • Writing your name on the ang pao before giving it helps the recipient keep track of your generosity or lack thereof

  • As long as the person giving the red packet has red hair, it is perfectly OK to open the red packet immediately upon receiving it

  • If the receiver of the red packet is unemployed, it is considered rude to give anything less than $250

  • It is customary to give only coins if the recipient is wearing an expensive watch or driving a luxury vehicle

  • It is rude to take a red packet with just one hand unless your other hand is occupied with a pineapple tart

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